You are probably wondering how could she leave you! Things seemed so perfect and you never got an inkling she was going to leave. But yes, she did. You probably might not have realized it because things seemed fine from your end but the issues did exist, most of them in things you did. You probably couldn’t get the inkling and she got tired of trying to tell you and eventually decided to leave. While it’s difficult to generalize why women leave, here are 9 things which are common to most of the cases:
(1) You don’t give her space:
Possessiveness is good but over-possessiveness makes one feel claustrophobic in the relationship. She must have been feeling suffocated and chained in the relationship and decided to set herself free.
(2) You are not being honest:
You are probably lying to her too much and in most of the cases, she has been catching you. Honesty is a key element in sustaining a relationship. If you are not honest, then your partner is bound to leave you.
(3) You have frequent mood swings:
We all have emotions but being moody is not a sign of behaving like a responsible adult. No one likes a complaining, whining partner. It’s the negativity that made her leave you.
(4) You are too serious:
Give yourself a break. Make a trip with her. It’s good to release the inner child in us, sometimes. Being too serious will scare her off.
(5) You don’t listen to her:
She probably knows every problem you are facing in your life but how much do you know about her? Imagine feeling ignored all the time. She feels that too when you don’t take the time to listen to her. She also feels she is not important in your life.
(6) You are being too critical of her:
Criticism is good but being too much judgmental makes her feel bad about herself. If she’s not happy in the relationship, what’s the point of staying?
(7) You don’t give time to her:
We all are busy in our lives but if we really want to make time for our special ones, we can definitely manage that. If you don’t have time for her, she will probably be with someone who has time for her.
(8) You are boring:
Relationship is always about adding sparks. Even you don’t like boring people or things. So, if you yourself become predictable, what’s the joy for her to stay with you?
(9) You avoid discussing sensitive matters with her:
A relationship demands intimacy and this intimacy is not just physical but also emotional. If you don’t open up to her, bring out your inner insecurities in front of her, she will feel you are not allowing her into your world.