Why Good Women Get Into Almost Relationships With Emotionally Unavailable Men

We think we can handle ourselves. We think we have good taste. We think we have finally stumbled across the perfect man who laughs at our jokes and spoils us with affection and is attracted to us on top of that. Then he hits us with the worst possible phrase: I’m not ready for a relationship right now. Excuses will come...

7 Types Of Women That Men Run From

In an ideal relationship, we’d only allow our partners to see the best version of us at all time. But in REAL relationships, we often allow them to see, both, the best and worst we have to offer. This is understandable. Living with someone, sharing money and toilet seats, seeing them day in and day out — it gets a...

Nine Mind Games Men Play (That Prove He Doesn’t Want A Serious Relationship)

Why would anyone be so cruel to leave you hanging on? Well, maybe it's because sometimes having you hang on is convenient for him. It's not always so cut and dry. A man may not even realize that he's keeping you "on the line" because he's got so many other things going on in his mind. Maybe he's wounded and...

Ten Signs His Feelings For You Run Way Deeper Than You Think

The other night, I was drinking with a longtime friend of mine by the name of Buddy*. Buddy and I had known each other for years, and often had moments where we weren’t speaking to one another due to drama within our circle of friends. I always thought I’d end up running into Buddy every other day, but he had texted...

Marry The Man Who Sends You Morning Texts

First thing in the morning, you know he's thinking of you. You're yawning. You stumble to the mirror and examine your face, puffy with sleep. You're throwing out yesterday's grounds and setting up the coffeemaker when something dings. It's a text message. And you smile, because you know who it is. Because he does it every morning. "hey babe how'd u sleep?" You...

5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Start Looking For Love

“Don't rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other.” ~Russ Von Hoelscher Being in love is awesome. Sharing your life with someone special who gets you, adores you, and loves you for who you are is amazing. Sometimes, though, we...

Marry A Man Who Knows How To Love Hard

You are worthy of love and belonging, just by way of having been born into this beautiful planet. But not just that. You deserve to be loved fiercely. You deserve to be loved by a man who knows how to love hard. A man who looks at you like you are made of magic. The kind of shimmering magic that you feel when...

We Fall in Love many Times in our Life, but we Rarely Love like This

In the past, I mixed up the term “falling in love” with the word “love.” For me, any romantic experience used to fall under the label of love. My quest for an appropriate definition of love is ongoing, but now I can at least form an idea of what it is. And I was wrong before—falling in love with someone...

Seven Ways to Stop Breaking our own Hearts

How many times have we said out loud, “He/she broke my heart,” or “It breaks my heart when…”? The truth is: we break our own hearts. This is a painful truth to face. I’ve lost count how many times my own heart has been broken. I could argue that the breaking of my heart was done to me by another person. I...

Psychopaths Don’t Care If They Hurt You

A key feature of psychopathy is insensitivity to causing harm in others. Researchers have long attempted to understand why people high in psychopathy have this emotional blind spot. A recent investigation by University of Padova (Italy) psychologist Carolina Pletti and colleagues (2017) tested a new model to provide insight into the reasons why those high in psychopathy fail to...

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