This Is The Kind Of Boyfriend You Deserve

You could be very basic or you could be the most complicated person you know in your lifetime. But you should remember that you are unique in your own way, and that you deserve only the darn best — the cream of the crop, la crème de la crème, the best of the best. And Sweetheart, the best needs patience...

I Don’t Get Attached Easily, So If I Make An Effort, You Really Mean Something To Me

I keep my distance from most people. I don’t let myself get close to anyone. I try not to get too invested. I’m not the kind of person who says I love you before getting to know you. I’m not the kind of person who daydreams about marriage after the first date. I’m not the kind of person who uses...

Don’t Make Her Wait Too Long

She knows the game you’re playing, but she pretends like she doesn’t. You’d like to keep her around because you just need someone to inflate your ego. She’s willing to do that not because she’s dumb and naive, but because she sees something good in you. She’s always hoping that you would be mature enough to see that too. She wishes for...

I Am Slowly Learning Not To Care Anymore

I am slowly learning to stop giving a fuck about people who couldn’t care less about me. I am not meant to bend over backwards for a one-sided love. I am not supposed to be putting in all of my effort into unhealthy relationships. If someone makes it clear that I am not a priority, I do not have...

Date Someone Who Calms You Down When You Feel Like Collapsing

Date someone who can handle how fucked up you are. Someone who loves you, even when you make it hard for them. Someone who doesn’t let you push them away, no matter how hard you try. Date someone who understands that you are broken, but that fixing you isn’t their job. Someone who is there to hold you when you...

You Deserve To Be With Someone Who Will Fight For You — No Matter What

I know you don’t think you deserve someone like this. I know you think you don’t deserve anything remotely good in your life. Maybe you have low self esteem. Maybe you have a broken heart. Maybe you hate your life. But trust me, you deserve it. You deserve the kind of love that will make you believe in yourself...

It Takes Losing What You Were Settling For To Remember What You Deserve

It takes loss to make us realize what we deserve. It takes heartbreak to make us realize the kind of love we want. And it takes falling in love with the wrong person to make us realize who’s really right for us. It takes losing what we had to realize that it wasn’t what we really wanted or needed. It takes losing...

Dear God, Thank You For All The Closed Doors

Thank you for all the closed doors. Thank you for redirecting me to something better. Thank you for preventing me from stepping in places that were not meant for me. Thank you for the detours because they led me to better places — places I never knew existed. Thank you for not allowing me to settle for second best...

I’m Slowly Learning That I Don’t Have To React To Everything That Bothers Me

I’m slowly learning that I don’t have to hurt those who hurt me. I’m slowly learning that maybe the ultimate sign of maturity is walking away instead of getting even. I’m slowly learning that the energy it takes to react to every bad thing that happens to you drains you and stops you from seeing the other good things...

How To Achieve Enlightenment

Robert Wright didn’t think of himself as a candidate for enlightenment. He had turned to mindfulness meditation, in part, to combat lifelong ADD—to focus his thoughts, give him a sense of control. So when his meditation teacher told him he could either focus on enlightenment or write a book about mediation, he was taken aback that enlightenment was even...

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